Irish Vintage Wedding by Nataya

I'm 60 and have met the most amazing man in the most amazing way! I've been on line dating for about 5 years and have met some really great guys! I live in the North East so they are more plentiful here - I admit that. There are some jerks - but... so I just said... Next!

I was in a place that I don't frequent and at a time I'm never there...in an Irish Pub in NYC on a Thursday evening back in December... I was there with a few girl friends from work to kill some time waiting for a train...we stopped in for a drink after seeing a play. A man walked in that I was instantly attracted to... A big bear of a man, around my age, with a nice beard and casual work clothing on... He ordered his beer and sort of hung in the background. I glanced his way and then continued my conversation with the much younger man to my right...the area to my left was open. So a few minutes later... I checked out the new man behind me again and he smiled at me... so I invited him to step up to join me. We are together now… 4 years later… just got married! Much later he told me that if I hadn't invited him up - he would never have presumed. He was on a break from work and he eats dinner in this pub often... I was his ideal woman... red hair, green eyes, very white skin, full figured and we are both Irish... he was in awe of me and would not have spoken to me at all... he thought I was out of his league (I was dressed for our company Christmas event) but since I did the reach out - he jumped on the chance to meet me.

We clicked instantly! Lots of things in common and chatted for about 1 1/2 hours before I had to go. He took my number and I thought - what are the chances? I live in NJ and work in CT. He lives in PA and works in NYC. But he makes it work! He comes to see me almost every weekend and sometimes I go there. We go away at least once a month and have met almost all of each other's nearest and dearest. It's a completely wonderful relationship that can certainly lead to both of our 2nd marraiges... My words to those looking... Keep at it! in the words of Winston Churchill... NEVER GIVE UP!